Why You Should Talk To People On Planes

Boing 747 London - Bangkok

I’m typically the type that gets on a plane armed with my laptop, a novel (or a trash mag), and have my earbuds in and tunes blaring as soon as the flight attendant gives the word. My vibe is don’t touch me and surely don’t talk to me!

Lately I’ve been taking shorter flights so lugging out the laptop to work is less productive. On a recent trip I decided to just hang out and see what happened.

I’ve determined there are at least 3 reasons HR pros (and others) should stash the earbuds and actually talk to people on planes. Here is goes:

1.  Always Be Recruiting – As HR types or otherwise, you should always be recruiting.  Planes offer a unique opportunity to see people in action, eavesdrop on convos and talk about what you do.  I happened to be sitting next to a 29 year-old who hand just landed his first “real” job.  He shared he’d been promoted twice in 6 months. Hmmm, not bad even if he was a bit late to the game. While my company doesn’t have a need for his skills, I know others who do and will pass his info along. He, in turn, recruited me to a new bar; or at least told me where the cool kids hang now.

2.  Professional Development a.k.a. Learning New S*#t - I also sat next to a man who shared he was 75 and still working as a Mechanical Engineer. Then he tells me he inherited a family farm that just happens to have a whole bunch of oil & gas under it and laughs that his boss calls him “Oil Tycoon” now.  I’m not shy, look at him puzzled and ask why the hell he’s still working.  He proceeds to tell me about how horizontal drilling and fracking (in Houston these terms are tossed around like the weather and football – i.e. they’re common) have changed the industry and as such he’s too interested to leave. It’s not about the money (clearly, he IS an Oil Tycoon after all) but it’s about continuous learning.  It was fascinating on many levels and I learned more in 2 hours from him about the industry than I have in the past 2 years.

3.  Networking – Both these guys asked for my card and I gladly handed it over.  The 75 year-old told me to call his CEO and mention we’d spoken. The 29 year-old offered to tell his HR Director about my company because “he really doesn’t seem to get it.” While I doubt anything will come of either offer, they were genuine and appreciative of my advice.  I told the older gentleman about what my parents were doing with a great time-share in Hawaii and Colorado and he excitedly scribbled down the website to check it out. He’s also taking my advice to NOT tell his 5 kids what he wants to do with his money as it seems they all have other plans for it!

While there still may be trips I just want to chill and listen to some Van Halen, I’m going to try and be more accessible going forward. The flights went faster and I felt like I learned some things and helped a couple of nice guys. Plus by engaging in a conversation, neither got into my space and I had the arm rest all to myself!  Added bonus.

Have you ever made a connection on a plane? Hit me in the comments…

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Kathy Rapp
Kathy Rapp is a Managing SVP at hrQ in Texas, where she helps companies find groovy HR Talent or HR Consultants to drive business results.  Prior to joining hrQ, Kathy booked more than 15 years of human resources leadership experience working for such companies as Morgan Stanley and First Data Corporation.  A connoisseur of the intersection between pop culture and business, Kathy believes many talent issues can be addressed via the succession planning lessons experienced by Van Halen  (David Lee/Sammy and sadly, Gary Cherone).

7 Comments

  1. Lori says:

    I LOVE talking to people on planes and have met some of the most fascinating individuals. I have met people who own patents are futuristic technology, like bio technology that can replace the need for a physical credit card, Heads of HR for companies that could be prospects, Venture Capitalists, CEOs, heads of regional committees responsible for implementing Electronic Health Records to name a few. The conversations are fascinating and soooo much better than listening to the same on tunes on my iPod.

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    • Kathy Rapp says:

      Lori – Thanks for your comments and I agree. It’s fascinating learning what others do and enjoy doing!

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  2. Kathi S. says:

    Many years ago I was sitting next to a restaurant owner on a plane. I asked how his business was doing and we discussed various aspects. He mentioned people usually could not eat an appetizer, dinner and a dessert and he was experimenting with half-sized appetizers and desserts. I am into word games and puns, so I said he should call them “Half-a-tizers”. He was so excited! He asked if I had seen that somewhere, or if I came up with it on my own. I assured him it was “made up”. He asked if I minded if he used it – and gave me his card offering a free meal if I was ever out his way.

    I never got out his way, and don’t where that card ever went – but that was a fun leg of my trip.

    People can be very interesting.

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    • Kathy Rapp says:

      Kathi – I hope he at least named a half-a-tizer after you! Great story and thanks for sharing!

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  3. Tatiana Beale says:

    I love this post! I have made many connections on planes before. From consultants to product managers, I have met many interesting people that wanted to learn more about my company (and I wanted to know more about theirs!). Since my company focuses on something that normally flies under most companies’ radar — employee happiness — these people have found our software and mission to be pretty fascinating. Although nothing concrete came from these connections, it just proves you never know who you are going to meet or talk to. It’s great to have an open mind and put yourself in a position to learn something new and share stories!

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  4. Mary Beth says:

    Talking to people on planes is not one of my favorite things (especially when you get the steamroller talker next to you that doesn’t give you a choice about whether to engage or not! haha) but I’m always surprised by how networking opportunities can pop up! Making the best of those opportunities can really pay off.

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