If you played ‘ball’ sports, you know the concept of Hero Ball. It’s exactly what it sounds like. One guy or gal trying to be the hero of the team and doing too much, or not playing within the team concept. They want to be the hero! The hero doesn’t pass. The hero takes the big shot. The hero tries to win the game all by themselves.
Hero Ball is permeating almost every part of our worlds. You just can’t be friends with a group anymore, because one friend is trying to be ‘hero friend’. You can’t be a normal member of your church because someone is trying to be ‘hero practitioner’. And, yes, we are all seeing this at our workplaces!
Don’t blame the millennials. Heroes come in all ages, shapes, sizes and creeds!
I’m going to blame our celebrity culture in America.
You can no longer just be a good standing member of society. You know have to be a rock star! It’s not good enough to have your kids participate in sports, they have to participate on the best team. You can’t just run for your health, you to run marathons! You can’t just show up every day and give a solid 9 to 5 to your company, you have to be willing to give up your life for your company. Or, you just don’t really care, do you?
Read the whole post over at The Tim Sackett Project (an FOT contributor blog).