I read an article that highlighted the correlation between unemployment and cheating men. As unemployment numbers rise, so does the percentage of men who cheat on their significant other.
I know you are shocked.
So this got me wondering about the entire concept of cheating during this economic slump, especially in the workplace. Then I have to ask, is it bad or even wrong? OK–Cheating on your Wife/Husband…whole ‘nuther league. I’m not a fan of it and don’t endorse it (it makes me quite sad actually). But before you say, “I have never nor will I ever cheat my company”, as an HR pro ask yourself these questions:
- Have I helped a coworker with a resume?
- Have I ever not told supervisors when their employees came to me asking to review their non-compete?
- Have I encouraged coworkers to join professional networking organizations?
- Have I advised employees who have topped out in their current careers that it may be in their best interest to look elsewhere?
- Have I advised mediocre employees to stick it out here in their current job until the unemployment rates get better?
If you have answered YES to any of these questions, then you may be considered a cheater. Some of the bullet points reflect cheating on your company, other bullet points may be considered cheating employees out of what was rightfully earned by them. And I bet this type of workplace “cheating” is on the rise within the context of a bad economy.
So is HR cheating it right? Is it ethical?
That depends on one thing—motive, and if your motive is sound, then so should your conscience. Regardless of global economic conditions, HR pros live in the “gray” area more often than not. Why? Because when you deal with human beings, you simply can’t plug it in. And if you are fighting for an authentic work culture, then it is your job as an HR pro to make authentic decisions; not cookie cutter decisions, not pre-fab decisions, but heart felt authentic choices based on varying factors and situations. Authentic decisions build trust in employees and builds trust with the employers. Do for one as you would do for the other.
If that doesn’t do it for you, it is also your job to prove business cases to your C-Suite and Employees on why these “cheating behaviors” could be considered good business. Most of the time, doing the right thing for the employee correlates directly with doing what is best for the company.
Dawn Burke, VP of Talent Consulting at Kinetix and founder/advisor for Dawn Burke HR, is an HR leader, speaker, and writer specializing in new HR practices, engagement and workplace culture. Her HR/recruiting/leadership career has spanned the last 20 years, with past gigs including a foundational role as VP of People for Birmingham, AL’s award-winning technology company, Daxko (And yes, Kris Dunn and Dawn are making Bham the HR capital of the world! Who knew?). You can also check her out at DawnHBurke.com and a variety of other interesting places. Google her, it’ll keep you posted on what she is up to.
Most importantly: She is addicted to TV, knows most of the lyrics to Hamilton and West Side Story, loves to cry at movies (check out Cinema Paradiso for a cry fest!), thinks wine, a wheel of Brie and Milk Duds make a well-balanced dinner, and sings in her car daily. Her husband and cat are the Yin to her Yang.