As HR pro’s it’s just part of the job that we come across shockingly not-smart employees once in a while – the ones who do something so stupid that you can’t help but stare at them with your mouth wide open and wonder if they thought at all before they acted. Well folks, it’s summer, which means that we’re in …
How To: Make it Stop! Employees Crying at Work – The Kiss of Corporate Awkwardness
My friend Leslie called me last week and before I even said hello she blurted out, “I cried in front of a (male) Senior Leader today. Like, really cried”. So awkward. Whenever I see or hear about a high powered woman crying at work I hate it for her. As a female trying to ‘lean in’, trying to make my …
Save The CIO’s From Extinction.
A few years ago a Software Development Manger walked into my office, slumped into the beanbag chair across from my desk, and exhaustedly announced that he wished people were computers because then he’d know how to use them. For a moment I saw myself homeless, standing on a street corner holding a sign. If people were computers I’d be screwed. …
You Dirty Rotten Scoundrel – Interviews and Lies.
I was talking to my friends little brother, Sam, over the weekend and after a year of working at a bar and living in his parents’ basement he landed his first job out of college and started three weeks ago. It’s a customer service/sales position with a huge, very well known (and often disliked) telecommunications company. Of course, I thought …
You Don’t Sell Time-Share Property, You Save Lives. The Power of a Good Story.
I just finished watching The Queen of Versailles for the second time…in two days. It’s okay to judge me for my commitment to trashy TV because I’m fully aware that I’m pretty much a reality show junkie. But this ‘American Documentary Film’ was a trifecta of crazy: Beauty queen marries David Siegel, a rich older man, and proclaims her love for him, …
The FOT Soap Box – Episode 3 [Video]
We’re back with Episode 3 of The FOT Soap Box. Today’s lineup: We drop the name tags form our videos. Crazy, we know. Marisa Keegan shares her inspiration for her post Trapped in a Box Tim Sackett rehashes his Frist Time Job Regrets If you – our valued reader – would like to come on The FOT Soap Box and riff on …
Trapped in a box.
I talk about The Deaf Kid a lot – My brother, my partner in crime, the kid who inspired presentations like The Time Farts Made Noise, and Dysfunction at Disney – killer titles which I deliver to esteemed business leaders. He is also the guy who got an iPod as recognition from his manager (score!), and the one who got his job …
Expose Yourself – All The Cool Kids Are Doing It
When talking about corporate culture and employee engagement Facebook, SAS, and Zappo’s receive a lot of press. And they deserve it for two reasons: They’re cool and they are exposing themselves. debt consolidation If your company isn’t cool that’s okay. Not every company can be the cool kid and, let's face it, lots of companies don’t want to be that …
Your Family Is Dysfunctional. You Should Blog About It.
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Can't Build A Relationship? You Can Still Manage…Seriously.
Three or four years ago I was leading a coaching session with a Software Developer turned Manager who had just received his Manager Effectiveness Score from our annual employee survey. He was upset because even though he knew he wasn “t very good at forming strong relationship with others, it hurt to see that his employees were feeling this disconnect …